<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Buena Vista Therapy]]></title><description><![CDATA[Taking care of your mental health.]]></description><link>https://www.buenavistatherapy.com/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sat, 11 Apr 2026 20:03:38 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.buenavistatherapy.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[What to do when your Partner doesn't love you anymore]]></title><description><![CDATA[What happens when your partner doesn't love you anymore, but you still love him or her? If you are in this situation, this is the moment when you need to love yourself unconditionally, explore your options, be honest with yourself, and start a new chapter in your life.]]></description><link>https://www.buenavistatherapy.com/post/what-to-do-when-your-partner-doesn-t-love-you-anymore</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69d86cfca51db32c14c45f37</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2026 03:23:15 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OGJustf1lZU" length="0" type="video"/><dc:creator>Alfredo Garcia</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why Talking about your Trauma is NOT Enough]]></title><description><![CDATA[Talking about your trauma is not enough to heal. While talking about your trauma brings awareness, your automatic nervous system still feels under threat. To bring healing to the nervous system, we must learn to regulate it. That means incorporating some life style changes, and being opened to other modalities like EMDR, Clinical Hypnotherapy, Strategic Psychotherapy and trauma-informed therapy. Trauma can be managed and healed.]]></description><link>https://www.buenavistatherapy.com/post/why-talking-about-your-trauma-is-not-enough</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69d86c084e4fe2e3f72bd2ed</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2026 03:20:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YB_O4O7azAg" length="0" type="video"/><dc:creator>Samantha Garcia</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Understanding Narcissism and Gaslighting]]></title><description><![CDATA[A toxic partner's persistent and prolonged criticism and degradation can leave you mentally exhausted. It is hard to believe that this person was someone you loved. It is hard to understand how someone can enjoy humiliating their partner and how someone can obtain such pleasure from destroying another person's dreams and aspirations. A narcissist is an empty person with no heart. You didn't lose them. They lost you.]]></description><link>https://www.buenavistatherapy.com/post/understanding-narcissism-and-gaslighting</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69d86a654e4fe2e3f72bcf1e</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2026 03:13:33 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H6tOlOpgZI4" length="0" type="video"/><dc:creator>Alfredo Garcia</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Negative Unconscious Thoughts You Believe without Questioning]]></title><description><![CDATA[Most of us don’t realise this, but we live a large part of our lives on autopilot — especially when it comes to our thoughts. In this video, I talk about unconscious negative thoughts and why we so often accept them without questioning them. Thoughts like “I’m not good enough,” “I’ll always struggle,” or “I’ll never find love” can quietly shape our choices, relationships, confidence, and self-worth — even when we’re not aware of it. These thoughts aren’t facts. They’re learned patterns that...]]></description><link>https://www.buenavistatherapy.com/post/the-negative-unconscious-thoughts-you-believe-without-questioning</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69d867f44e4fe2e3f72bc9d3</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2026 03:07:03 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PF5t1ORMz1E" length="0" type="video"/><dc:creator>Samantha Garcia</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>